Episode 151

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17th Aug 2024

Episode 151: Loving Your Past Self: Adult ADHD Discovery and Reparenting Your Inner Child [featuring Monica Leblanc]

In this episode, I spoke with Monica Leblanc, a seasoned therapist, coach, freelance writer, and Enneagram teacher, as she shared insights from her journey, particularly around her recent ADHD diagnosis and the importance of loving past versions of ourselves to stay present.

Key Takeaways:

  1. Compassion for Past Selves: Monica highlights the need for compassion when reflecting on past versions of ourselves. This is especially relevant for those with late-in-life neurodivergent diagnoses, like ADHD, where understanding and compassion for "past parts" are crucial for healing.
  2. Impact of Medication: Both Monica and I discussed the stigma surrounding medication for neurodivergent individuals. Monica spoke openly about how medication has transformed her executive functioning and brought clarity and progress in her work and daily life.
  3. Authenticity and Alignment: Monica shared her journey from feeling like a "hot mess" in business to finding alignment in her personal and professional life. Her story underlines the value of authenticity and re-parenting one's inner child to create a successful, meaningful career.

More about Monica:

Monica is a therapist, coach, freelance writer, and enneagram teacher. Based out of Asheville, NC, she sees clients in her boutique therapy practice who want more connected relationships with themselves and their dear ones. She uses a combination of parts work (Internal family systems), the enneagram, and dynamic attachment repatterning experiencing (DARE) to help recovering people pleasers alchemize their pain into purpose and meaning and create alignment in their choices.

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The Neurodivergent Entrepreneur
Honest conversations about building a business while Neurodivergent, the self-doubt, the chaos, and everything in between.
The Neurodivergent Entrepreneur is a podcast for ADHD, Autistic, and all other neurodivergent entrepreneurs who are building businesses, creative work, and lives that actually fit how their brains work. Hosted by Patrick Casale, LCMHC, this show is for people who
want to create meaningful work, create outside of the box, grow their impact, and build something sustainable without losing themselves in the process.

Being a neurodivergent entrepreneur can feel like holding a lot of contradictions at once. You may have big ideas, deep passion, creative energy, and a strong desire to do things differently. You may also be navigating burnout, masking, self-doubt, perfectionism, rejection sensitivity, executive dysfunction, inconsistent energy, and the pressure to keep showing up when your capacity is already stretched. This podcast speaks to that reality honestly, because building a business around your brain, your values, and your lived experience can be powerful, complicated, messy, and deeply personal.

Patrick Casale is a chronically ill, AuDHD, mental health therapist, entrepreneur, TEDx speaker, event host, group practice owner, and neurodivergent business owner who has built, grown, burned out, pivoted, and kept going. His work brings together clinical insight, lived experience, business perspective, and real conversation about what it actually takes to create something that feels values aligned. His conversations are direct, compassionate, unfiltered, and practical, with room for both the emotional reality of entrepreneurship and the concrete decisions that shape a sustainable business.

New episodes drop every Wednesday and feature honest conversations with neurodivergent entrepreneurs, creators, therapists, business owners, and leaders. Together, Patrick and his guests explore entrepreneurship, identity, mental health, chronic health,
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